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What is humiliation ? Bible Studies

Jeremiah 49:16

Due to enemy want to attack your heart able to harm your pride and arrogance due to your status quo and dignity is being humiliated, embarrassment, insulted and being challenged, deteriored and inferiored against one parties’s dignity into darkness bias until his goodwill of name and organization is being suffered from defamation

If your act, behavior and sensation could be reprimanded and justified as discrimination, prejusdice, bias and proofing having humiliated contents. Where such conversation is having libel, slander and malicious purpose which could hurt and ruin someone’s reputation to become damage and destroyed.

Exactly what constitutes improper speech about others? Understanding this is the most difficult part of the subject for many.

The following definitions are from The American Heritage Dictionary.

"Gossip" - "Rumor or talk of a personal, sensational, or intimate nature." This word is nowhere used in the KJV

(it is used in the NKJV in 1 Timothy 5:13).

"Rumor" - "Unverified information of uncertain origin usually spread by word of mouth; hearsay."

"Slander" - "The utterance of defamatory statements injurious to the reputation or well-being of a person. ... A malicious statement or report."

"Backbite" - "To speak spitefully or slanderously about (a person)."

"Talebearer" - "A person who spreads malicious stories or gossip."

"Rail" - "To condemn or attack in bitter, harsh, or abusive language...

"Revile" - "To denounce with abusive language."

In order to justify the eyes movement, verbally attacked in any ears, mouth and science and technology in humiliation, embarrassment, insultation and inferiority that might damage and cause someone to have nervous shock.

* published

•  false

•  injurious (harmful)

•  unprivileged( no title)

If your verbal communication and contents is comprised of slander, libel, malicious and inferiority purpose which is being falsely published in a formal way (press,  radio recorder, CD or VCD) and hurt someone until his dignity, status quo, inner soul and heart being unpriviledged to become damage and destroy by just a destroyer and violence, assault humiliation until to a certain extent his or her self-esteem is to be challenged until suicide, self-destruction against the enemy.

It is not necessary to questioning to asking sinful person who played office politics (like slander, libel, malicious and gossip etc). But what they did is to engage a false report(conversation) in order to humiliate, inferiority, embarrass, sabotage individual price dignity and ruin their reputation into “reviling”, ëvil surmising”,   by circulate all those tumors and torment rumors conversation is just to demoted one party position and status quo into darkness ailments.

They are seeking suicide and self-destruction is just want to revenge on the parties’s whose tried to being sarcasticly destroyed and ruin their self-dignity and self-identities.  If one party’s self-esteem is being inferiored,  deteriored, destroyed it just because of the price’s dignity is being challenged and destroyed, until certain degree that losing their IQ & EQ and resulting high intensity in stress management. Where individual conscious mind and unconscious mind is being shaking and destroyed until he suffered from depression and ruining their reputation and dignity, therefore they looked for self-destruction.

Slander is often associated with strife, contention, and division like fuel to a fire. In such times, people may say harsh things about one another. They may drag out all the dirt they can to discredit one another. They may bring up old wrongs that were corrected wrong ago, or old matters that had been overlooked till a "blow-up" occurs.

Proverbs 11:9 - The hypocrite from his mouth destroys his neighbor. Men have lost jobs, wealth, and families because of character assassination.

Proverbs 18:21 - Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit. People have been killed because of slanderous lies told against them.

C. Slander Demonstrates We Have the Character of Satan.

1 Timothy 3:11 - The wives of elders and deacons must not be slanderers. The word for "slanderer" here is the same word as the word "devil." "Devil" means slanderer or false accuser.

For example, the devil accused Job before God saying Job would turn against God if he suffered enough (Job 1,2). This demonstrates the nature of Satan and illustrates the character of a slanderer or false accuser.

When we are guilty of slander, we are acting like devils: we demonstrate that our character is like that of Satan.

D. Slander Causes the One Who Is Guilty to Lose His Eternal Reward.

Psalms 101:5 - Whoever secretly slanders his neighbor, Him I will destroy.

Romans 1:30,32 - Backbiters are worthy of death and so are people who approve of others who practice it.

1 Corinthians 5:11 - Revilers in a local church should be withdrawn from (if they don't repent).

Surely there are many reasons to avoid slander. What about us? Have we been guilty of slander or have we kept our speech pure? If we have slandered others, have we repented and asked for forgiveness from those whom we have harmed?

[Psalm 15:1-3; 1 Corinthians 6:10]

Humiliation - Bible Study

Chapter 2, verse 25, Humiliation

When we are giving born, we does not have the sinfulness to reach in this world- John Lock : We are like a piece of blank papers - very innocent without knowing what is the meaning of life, old, illness and death. 

Howevers, whatever unpleasant personalities feelings and emotion that you first time encountered like getting canning, scolding, humiliating, whatever types of illness - PTSD, stomachache. Although you 


There was no embarrassment. The experience of humiliation was completely unknown and foreign to the human race. However, along with the first experience of sin came the awful burden of the weight of personal shame and embarrassment. 


Shame and embarrassment are feelings and experiences that occur to us in various degrees. The worst kind of shame, the most dreadful form of embarrassment, is that which results in utter and complete humiliation. Humiliation brings with it not merely the reddened face of embarrassment but also the sense of despair as we lose our dignity and our reputations are cast into ruin.

stem of roots

In order for us to compare our day with the day that Noah lived we can look in the book of Genesis 6:5-13:

And GOD saw that the wickedness of man [was] great in the earth, and [that] every imagination of the thoughts of his heart [was] only evil continually. And it repented the LORD that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart. And the LORD said, I will destroy man whom I have created from the face of the earth; both man, and beast, and the creeping thing, and the fowls of the air; for it repenteth me that I have made them. But Noah found grace in the eyes of the LORD. These [are] the generations of Noah: Noah was a just man [and] perfect in his generations, [and] Noah walked with God. And Noah begat three sons, Shem, Ham, and Japheth. The earth also was corrupt before God, and the earth was filled with violence. And God looked upon the earth, and, behold, it was corrupt; for all flesh had corrupted his way upon the earth. And God said unto Noah, The end of all flesh is come before me; for the earth is filled with violence through them; and, behold, I will destroy them with the earth. Genesis 6:5-13

There is an evil spiritual that are being bonded to every human being that are living in the earth.
As the lord would destroy the earth if the earth was being corrupted with violence.  
Genesis 6:5-13

it's was a kind emotion control that buried deep inside your soul and heart : anger, aggressive, violence, abusive, wrath, dispute, quarreling and crying just because the violence act and behavior had been exhibited to attack, destroy, harm and injured the person with any form of physical and mentally which would considered as violence behavior.

The stem of root would be planted with love seedless, however, the branches would be expanded with the different kinds of faith that might be have different fates that are represented with different branches come with leaves and fruits. 

Men and their programs only prune the branches of an evil tree, while the root system remains intact. What is the root of violence? It’s rebellion against God and His laws. Therefore as long as the root system is untouched the tree will only grow more branches and bear more rotten fruit.


Although the stem of roots was being planted with many centuries ago, but the branches of the trees, branches and fruits would be harvesting according different climates. But the two sides of the trees is being planted by side by side.

Although the trees were being planted together and received the same treatment from the nature of natural beauty. Howevers, all process of belonged for expanding, growing and blooming and dropping would relied the time frame, love, weather, supply nutrition, water, airs, moistures and etc external factors.

Can I said that twins would be almost 100% same in accordance with the different personalities ? The answers it does not have absolute answers.

It just because the seedless of trees is being planted by using the same batch of the seedless. Although the treatment is also the same, but bear in mind that the results and sum of fruits that we are expected might not the same. It just because different people have different characters, traits, personalities. Therefore, we do not expect to seek the absolute answers by sowing organic water or moisture might generate the maximum and sweet mango, however, we simply sowed with natural waters, it might also growing.

In simple meaning, the nature versus environment beauty

Although the nature means the genetic factors, substance of airs, water, moistures, fertilizer and land was almost the same. But some trees might grow healthier than others trees. 

Sometimes all the kromosom had been fixed and being prescribed by the genetic and versus environment would does not have definite answers. 

Sometimes in educate the personalities of children is not lied at genetic factors or any internal education that might be given. But end of the days, it might due to the frequency of negative feelings and emotion that will be bumped with accidents, bad weather, evil and sickness of intention of the person that he might trapped you against your faith and fate.

Although the roots of trees might produce different branches personalities, where you could not expect what kind of personalities that you might desire, either obedient or naughty, but I knew that is the environment is the key constitutor to determine the personalities. 

No matters what kinds of climates changes, environment would be the dependent variables that would trigger the changes of the personalities that would change accordingly to the environments with the surrounding of natural beauty.

During the darkness and low tides, your feelings and emotion would be negativism, depressed and frustration. But the surrounding environment is a kind pressure to squeeze you to open out your soul and heart to be openness to unlock the locksmith by just pressing the door's alarm, there would be a lot of wisdom is awaiting you digging out from the locking cognitive states. 


Is the roots of trees nurtured the branches and stem of trees?
Is the roots of trees would relied the external factors to nurtue the branches and stem of trees ?

Answers :
There is no definite answer to answer it, everything is depend on your faith, fates and your self identity in responding the external environments 

Therefore violence is not genetic factors
But violence behaviors and acts is like the rotten fruits and breaking branches in harvesting the bad returned towards the lord. This is because the environment would react differently such as storming, lighting, tornadoes such as behave violently, aggressive and frustration through out the trial and difficult times ! 


But instead, actually the more bad weather environment would require more resilience power to determine the critical success factor by innovating and think out of boxes from the locking mind, as environment is your enemy, but how you adapt the environment would be your preference choices just to examine your survival and resilience and persistency power. Therefore, environment can be a miracle power through your introspective and sensing power through out the nature versus natural beauty.

Violence

Violence is simply a reflection of human nature, which does not change.

WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS

Put away “wrath, anger, badness, abusive speech, and obscene talk.” It also says: “Strip off the old personality with its practices, and clothe yourselves with the new personality.” (Colossians 3:8-10) Is God asking too much of us? No. People can change. * How?

The first step is gaining an accurate knowledge of God. (Colossians 3:10)  When a person with a receptive heart learns about our Creator’s appealing qualities and standards, he is drawn to God in love and wants to please him.—1 John 5:3.

The second step is related to our choice of associates. “Do not keep company with a hot-tempered man or get involved with one disposed to rage, so that you never learn his ways and ensnare yourself.”—Proverbs 22:24, 25.

The third step involves insight. See the inclination toward violence for what it is—a serious weakness that reflects a lack of self-control. The peaceable, by comparison, have inner strength. “The one slow to anger is better than a mighty man,” says Proverbs 16:32.

Behold clay in the potter hand

Jeramiah  18: 6 

"Behold, as the clay is in the potter's hand, so are you in my hand."

But he let the clay speak for him, 

When you are holding your own belief, value, attitude and own perception about the clay is how was being shaping and build in the fixed mould. Therefore, all the finished products like the teapot, plate and bowl, it was ready to process and ready for available in your hand by using your own heart and soul.

The "clay" was the interpretation from the past experiences about the past teacher's guidance. However, if the clay is being manifested by your hand is follow the  rules and regulation, then your cognitive state would also follow rules and regulation from the early childhood and being formed and regulated since you are giving borne.

If the "clay" was being spoken with you/owner of such possession,

then, you are use your imagination, wisdom and miracle power to form, build and manufacture the clay by using your own creativity and imagination into one unique vase by melting with some crystal balls substance, then the vase would become very unique and outstanding that are melting with crystal ball and clay. As a result, the vase had become very "attractive" in front of the eyes of nations. 

In order to striving the quality products or your goal and ambitions, 
No matters how many times of failures and mistakes in sitting the exams, we should strive for persistency, alert own mistake, learnt from mistake, then we surrender to the lord. Although we knew that we already tried my best, but the clay is still haven't formed. 

Howevers, although the times passed by until I almost reached the time of death, I still haven't achieved all the desires and wisdom that I am going to attain for the such achievements.

The clay that I am holding in my hand is quite warm, heat and gentle which is matching my hand palm's size, but the more time I am squeeze, fold and twisted with all my capacity of my hands's faith that I need to bowl down to the hand of lord. 

My hand's palm was started sweating and weak, but I already could not sense the touching part of the clay that already formed and looked like a dirt clay. As the clay look like no longer so infatuation, look so flexible or might be benching to one and another.  

It might due to the dirt clay is started to melt with different kind of people's looking down on your abilities, skills and knowledge through out the passing timing passed by. But instead to have introspection to his inner lead of the clay is a kind of dirt clay, but the dirt clay is actually suffered and encounter and tasting different kind of life experiences. 

But if you see this dirt clay is a dirt clay, then your eyes of appearance and mind is just like a shit doggies like to looking down to other people's appearance to critize his appearance is so attractive and infatuation. 

But if the clay is so clean and holy, then your inner soul and heart is to be considered as like a fresh flowers that are just blooming. Can I question that the fresh flowers not only giving you the nice aroma, but it also keep your eyes so bright and smart and intelligence to select the fresh flowers. What i need to do just to see the timing from the bush of flowers is to be blooming in a very nice scenery.

But, when you pluck the fresh flowers, of douse you are plucking the fresh and nice scenery flowers, but all the while you are look like you are acting in front of me, because the flowers that you might need to pluck is just a fresh and beauty flowers in front of me.

In other words, life is not just to pluck the fresh flowers, To pluck fresh flowers is to be considered look arrogance and vain, just want to show off the flowers look nice and decorated in front the eyes of you. But the timing of expiry date is just like a beauty of the fireworks by just a few seconds, although is so beauty in your soul and heart, but it only leaving you a uncountable memories and missing life that you had took possession to him.

You could possessed such clay in front the potters in your hand, but it could not long lasting, because the clay had not under such a pressure and experience to overcome such endurance and challenges, all you need to examine the clay's substance whether it able to gone through such endurance and challenges using your passion love of you in manufacture such clay potters through the time passed by witnessing you are just a arrogance and vain guy to buy a fresh flowers ?

千と千尋の神隠し - いつも何度でも純音樂

LOVE初戀,愛情。

不待如空花,固非不依賴,
自性有則成,違於依因緣。

在二十世紀,我們從少年時期學會什麼的初戀,愛情。人人都很嚮往愛情,甚 至為愛情沖昏了頭腦裏。在熱戀當中,我們永遠停留在那甜蜜蜜的時刻,永遠 記得他真的百般呵護,為你檔風擋雨,通常在拍拖的時候,雙方是真的獻出真 愛的海誓山盟的承若及堅信。(Intimacy love)

為什麼有些愛情的橋梁這麼脆弱?是否雙方不夠互相理解,互相尊重以及滿中 不到對方所有的追求,導致雙方破裂。愛情就像緣分一樣,您越渴望對愛情追 逐,雲彩就像隨著他個人的性格及情緒化互相改變,也許雙方的相遇是很美麗, 但是過程當中有自己的想法,思維的溝通的不妥協,導致個人意見不合。

您明知曉愛情就《不待如空花,固非不依賴》,倘若您不主動去採花蜜,那麼 怎樣開花結果。同樣的的道理,您不慈悲,對方怎樣與您溝通。您不用心等待, 愛情怎樣開花結果。有時愛情的到來,是要互相點頭及攜手一起走近雙方的心 房。

一切因緣生一切因緣滅,所有有因緣造作的都是有為法。 同樣的道理,今天天昏地暗,明天晴空萬里,很多時候我們人類并不能 完全空中所有雲彩的固體不是互相依賴,而是靠緣份的負離子來形成滿 星天空。倘若雙方不曾與您相遇,我哪有一場空的待遇,但是我所有身邊的 愛人離了我,我有的是對您還在世的記憶與回憶。所有您對心中有依偎他的存 在,但是您有心儀他的一切,但是聖女不在他心上。

那是水是一種緣份不停的纏動,然而月亮及太陽是一種因緣的互相不依賴的關 係,他們的出現就像空氣及水份是有互相相遇的緣份的依賴關係。但是,在茫 茫大海,相遇只是互相擦肩而過,緣份是被命運安排或註定,就像勉強,也不 能開花結果,想要做出困惑与解脱,有些事在冥冥之中是有定数。水中並沒有 月亮,而是空中的月反映在水中,使水中看起來有月亮。這叫做有緣無份。

雖然夜空有星星照耀及互相閃耀,月亮依然還是高高掛著,無論如何您
思念心中的太陽與月亮,他還是對你冷言冷語,因為彼此的緣份就像宇

心中的眼淚湧入出來,這時有一伍螢火蟲慢慢飛,所有的眼淚掉落會慢
宙與地球一樣有傷痕累累,很多樹林被砍伐了,才知道樹木有情,慢慢


慢形成心中的小小的菩提燈籠。

《自性有則成,違於依因緣》

另一種緣分就是你自己的安排了,如果你只等著緣分的到來的話,不去
追求是永遠也不可能得到的,知道自己喜歡那就是你的緣分,如果你不
去追求那你會可能得到嗎?所以緣分是要靠自己創造出自己的自性的三
品來配合自己與愛人的互相妥協,體諒及考驗。

在這時候,我們很渴望愛情的滋潤及嚮往,但是我們必須用自己的心來促動別
人的心,這樣才可以互相牽手而互相走進更深的佛海的認知。

我個人認為,那些只相信「緣份」會為自己帶來白雪公主或是白馬王子 的人, 就好像「守株待兔」一樣可笑,「緣份」不只是上天的安排,它 的到來, 是需要努力追求才可得到,不費吹灰之力便輕易得到的愛,不 算是真正的愛。 愛情裡的歡樂是在於追求的過程當中,正如流星的燦 爛也是在於過程一樣, 雖然有時可能會遇上失敗,但不經歷失敗,又怎 能看到成功的彩虹? 更何況,愛情的真正意義不在於最終能否得到結只 要自己曾經真摯地愛過,努力去追求過、爭取過,已經可以無愧青春。

所以才跌跌撞撞多處傷痕累累,到底如何何時才可以安居樂業呢》

我們為人父母,難免會想要生兒育女,流傳下一代的傳說,就是想要子孫滿堂。