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Wednesday, 24 October 2018

Sadism


Sadism and masochism 受虐狂 is an illness and disorder in our conscious and unconscious minds in struggling in continuing our life even there is a tragedy disasters, such as earthquake, soil erosion, Japan reactor explosion, world wars, economic barriers, aircraft tragedy and etc. Individually might face overwhelming pressure, forces and intense as a result witnessing a lot of people sacrifice their life innocently. This is because they lost hope, direction and pathway in continuing their prosper and wealth in the abandon city, such as Mekah, USA 911 in struggling the survival as an usual and normal operating reporting status quo.

A lot of times, the root cause whose inflicting the hatred, hateness, upward and downward jealousy, social injustice and social oppression is due to existence holy war in following their own spiritual with respective their own religion.

When there is a fight and fight mode, in the event of uncertainties such as natural disasters, earthquake. A lot of people went to commit  altruistic suicide due to the stress that they are facing is quite overwhelming, until they lost their lost emotional intelligence, IQ and stress control in walking the lamb of god pathway in the name of Kingdom of Lord. This is because those victims of sadism is having self-criticism, bodily harm self-attack, tormenting thought of death and self-torturing especially in the condition of hopeless and helplessness. It all just because he or she unable to cope those pressure, forces and hardship when someone betrayed you, I betrayed you. You slap me, I slap you in returns with all those hatred, hateness, revenge and resentment towards you with high anger of jealousy burn in the fire of hell.

A tree and its fruit <Mathew 7:8>
By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? Likewise every good tree bear good fruit, but a bad tree bears bead fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into fire. Thus by their fruit you will recognize them.


Lesson learnt from JTA Eura Audit International - Malaysia 911

A good leader would receive blossom and harvest like expanding branches roots, stems and leaves located in different territories if he or she really nurture and educate the subordinates and co-workers with teamwork building spirituals with the desires and ambitions to achieve quality service and products in attaining the economy, efficiency and effectiveness and value of audit money.

How about Bad tree bears rotten fruits ?

Lord love the nations with love of lords - moisture, land, fresh air, flora and fauna, ocean and mountains, four season changes and dried and wet weathers. Every nurtue versus environment is live and peaceful by conveying the messages to the human being and live stock about mind and body is humanistic way to continue life harmoniously and peacefully.

Why rotten fruits ?

云彩的缘分的互相相遇是那么美丽动人也让我心心相印的美丽果实。然而好景不长开,一场大灾难夺取了无数的罹难者的性命,那是因为我们就如迷茫小羔羊无法辨认任何方向的驱使的

There is selfish, dark, anger, violence turmoil are being stuck inside the struggle and massive hardship in sailoring the lamb of god which is losing direction pathway of the lord faith, it allowed us to taste what is a kind of feeling in a conquer fight and fight mode and turmoil environments among the faithless adulteries in a hopeless and helpless Israel. 

One of the factor that inflicting the turmoil in harvesting the bad rotten fruit trees, It all just because human being's wisdom and desires in digging  the precious jewellery just to have desires to walked into Kingdom of Lord in rise up the faith to everyone in the world regardless whatever religion belief. Why lord want to teach and punish us what is the meaning the good and bad apple in our life ? But inside the bible just mentioned about the holy and unholy spirituals.

Lesson learnt with world war : Sadism > Altruistic Suicide

Actually, why our lord design and create so many livestocks, human nature, birds, ocean wave creatures stayed inside the world,  where some social animals can live harmonically and fighting each and another.

上帝创造了万物稻谷,有鸟语花香得风景,大海,山明水秀,瀑布,海洋的传灯世间的人间净土里,这些禽兽,鸟语花香,蛇虫爬类包括人类都活在同一个太阳及月亮的低下思故乡。上帝赏识了智慧及欲望好让我们人类有无数的电脑科技发达及科学研究来创造了糙米,香米,日本珍珠香米。然而世界顿然变得黑暗无星光,那是因为众生滥用科技发达的智慧,导致许多瘟疫病菌的传播。那是所有的科技发达后面,都会有许多人命牺牲在科技发达的滥用。甚至黑心有黑心有果报,如果拥有者滥用

This is so teach our next generation about the "righteous" and "wrongfullness" about our internal state of  knowledge, wisdom and emotional intelligence that are communicated parellel with the language, rasional and logic through the surrounding environments.

Even there is a huge humiliation, assault, bullied, harsh scolding, rage, sarcastic criticism in our darkness heart, we still need to continue our life even we lost the lover one.  This is because there is evil, wicked man maximum the pain and minimise the pleasure in accelerating their intense pain and torment feelings and emotions. This is so called egoism versus hedonism.

Root of Sadism :  Unpleasant Office Politics,  World War in the Country

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A lot of people went to commit  altruistic suicide due to the stress that they are facing is quite overwhelming, until they lost their lost emotional intelligence, IQ and stress control in walking the lamb of god pathway in the name of Kingdom of Lord. 




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Bill Clinton becomes president
Clinton faced intense competition for the Democratic nomination as a  president.

Although He was not educated from a prosper university or school in a underdeveloped cities. He personal success is regard his personal scandal and outstanding viewpoint and aspiration that he would like to bring prosperity to USA cities. He dare to point out that national government lack of experience in understanding the foreign policy - that is to avoid military service during the Vietnam War.

Clinton make a constructive criticism regarding economic reformation and being admired and selection as an America President- to resolve the issues of  unemployment and health care. 

He supported the 1993 North American Free Trade Agreement (NAFTA), which made a single trading unit of the United States, Canada, and Mexico

President Clinton and Vice President Gore launched their economic strategy: 
(1) establishing fiscal discipline, eliminating the budget deficit, keeping interest rates low, and spurring private-sector investment;
 (2) investing in people through education, training, science, and research; and 
(3) opening foreign markets so American workers can compete abroad. After eight years, the results of President Clinton's economic leadership are clear. Record budget deficits have become record surpluses, 22 million new jobs have been created, unemployment and core inflation are at their lowest levels in more than 30 years, and America is in the midst of the longest economic expansion in our history.

The Great Success of Bill Clinton in cerebration the wealth and prosper of USA cities : -

The USA economic reformation had brought out humanistic, independence, freedom of trade, protection right workers in a healthy environment, eliminate child labor. His own fiscal economic policy is to maintain sound system of corporate governance and detect red flags and reporting those charged with corporate governance by having intensive education, training and research and developments.


Japan Hiroshima World War II
The Enola Gay, dropped the first atomic bomb, "Little Boy," over the Japanese city of Hiroshima, during World War II, on August 6, 1945. The bomb wiped out 90 percent of the city and instantly killed an estimated 80,000 people.
Three days later, the U.S. dropped a second bomb, "Fat Boy," on Nagasaki killing an estimated 40,000 on August 9. Tens of thousands died later in both cities from the effects of the nuclear bombs. Their destructive p sands died later in both cities from the effects of the nuclear bombs. Their  ower was unprecedented, incinerating buildings and people, and leaving lifelong scars on survivors, both physical and psychological, and on the cities themselves.
Days later, World War II was over. Japan's Emperor Hirohito announced his country's unconditional surrender on August 15, 1945, describing the devastating power of "a new and most cruel bomb."









Sadistic personality disorder (SDP) is characterized by an individual’s pattern of cruel, harsh, aggressive, intimidating, humiliating, and demeaning behavior. The disorder has been the subject of several studies and originally appeared in the DSM-III-R (American Psychiatric Association 1987). The disorder was included because of an effort to distinguish it from antisocial personality disorder (ASPD) or psychopathy since the constellation of traits descriptive of an individual with sadistic behavior patterns was not sufficiently explained by existing disorders (Chabrol et al. 2009). The belief that the different constellations would be useful in diagnosing individuals is what led the diagnosis to appear in the appendix of the DSM-III-R, under a section entitled, “Proposed Diagnostic Categories Requiring Further Study.” There was considerable support for including the diagnosis. A survey of forensic psychiatrists had revealed, for example, that 50% of them had, at some time, evaluated in a forensic setting a subject who exhibited behavior that met the criteria for the disorder (Spitzer et al. 1991). It was hoped that the disorder’s inclusion would stimulate further research. Eventually, however, concerns about the disorder’s validity, usefulness, and lack of supportive research led to its exclusion from other versions of more recent diagnostic manuals.















拥有高尚宗教信仰,代表心中有菩萨,代表心中有菩提智慧,凡是遇到风风雨雨,我们都祈求神拜佛祈求上天保佑,我双手膜拜祈求心中的小小星愿像紫霞的天空中撒发出七彩缤纷的美丽天空的缘分。然而这美丽天空下起七情六欲的心雨,这时上帝哭泣了,责骂众生为何如此不可互相帮组,照顾,迁救,妥协,怜悯及珍惜缘份对方的相遇。只有您稍微的互相点头,微笑,手握手,互相说声早安好,也是一种美丽互相擦肩缘分。无论这种缘分是短还是长,对方的影子,印象,处事态度,压力管理,风度翩翩的一表人才,都让您慢慢吸引就仰慕在您的心中菩萨而想要得到心灵甘露及菩提智慧。

然而很可惜的一面,我如何努力爬啊爬啊,无论怎样爬,我的努力似乎是一场空,我祈求星愿祝福我可以更加坚强,勇敢的爬起来。但突然间星月日空虚,我感觉特别冷冰冰,面对人间的互相鄙视眼,互相歧视的人间薄情寡义,薄情无义刁钻刻薄。    

人生吗?就是上帝在考验我们的六根清净,色受想行识,如何善用您的智慧与欲望沟通在人生的低潮,痛苦,重創、沮喪、挫折, 無助的环境打开心灵智慧门锁。倘若您把心中的封闭的宗教信仰的心门打开,您就可以看见上帝的天国的百灵鸟,喜鹊,互相歌颂着上帝的爱及严厉对于世界的一片苦芯莲要他们明白花草树木,鸟语花香,山明水秀,明天会更美丽,珍惜缘分。



七情是指

六欲:色、声、香、味、触、法 

研究上發現,有信仰的人身心 比較健康,生活上會感到比較幸 福,當他們受創的時候,受到挫折 的時候,承受力比較高,精神生活 也比較能夠提升。生命中有時難免 要面對很多的痛苦,重創、沮喪、 無助,但當我們有了宗教信仰,在 碰到難題的時候,信仰讓我們比較 能夠去包容這些痛苦、挫折,進而 去面對它,這就是宗教信仰在心理 歷程上最重要的功效。 (待續










However, we are still left with the problem of innocent people suffering violent deaths by the Israelites acting under God’s orders.

by the language of the groups, which serves to explain to its members what is happening and to justify their desires, motives, and behavior. Frames tell people what is and what is not proper, acceptable, and possible with their world. They define and categorize for their members situations, settings, scenes, identities, roles, and relationships. When people join sadomasochistic groups, or any other kind of group, they are taught not only frames, but also the conceptual tools or "keys" for defining, applying, transforming, and limiting them. Frame analysis helps make sense of findings that might otherwise be difficult to explain. For example, the apparently puzzling existence in the S&M subculture of "dominant" women and "submissive" men when the larger society to which these individuals also belong prescribes aggressiveness for males and passivity for females may be explained in terms of makebelieve, fantasy, and the theatrical frame. Lack of generalization into the larger world of roles and relationships developed within the sadomasochistic subworld is explained in terms of how behavior is "keyed". A number of areas that have not been fully developed here could be profitably explored. For example, although we have attended to the structuring and limiting of S&M frames, we have not explored misframings, miskeyings, breaking frame, and other errors and their consequences for interactants. Hollander, for instance, provides an example in which an S&M episode was miskeyed with disastrous results. Another issue for further exploration involves the ways in which the language of S&M structures the relations between participants in the world by building in notions of activity and passivity and tying these to particular roles in the interaction. The specific identities of people as "dominant" or "submissive", the ways in which they arrive at a recognition of these self-identities, and the stability of these orientations await investigation.

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